All My Better Days Are The Ones Spent With You

Relationship and love bonds are all about affection. Most importantly, in every relationship bond and communication is the key to maintaining everything whether you are in a long-distance relationship. Fairytales and storybooks have got it all wrong.

We are often taught that love is a feeling. Feelings are the true support for your partner. A relationship is all about emotions. I am going to choose him because my heart knows I got lucky with this one.

Many people define love in their own words but to me, it has a very meaningful definition along with emotional intimacy and friendship. As we are in a long-distance relationship all my better days are the ones, I spent with him.

The way we hang out, fighting for food, watching reels together, and end up cuddling in the bed. He is everything to me and he does not deserve to be half loved due to ever-changing feelings.

Long-distance relationships are hard to manage but if you do not give up. You will be successful in the end and the result is fruitful.

Women in blue denim jacket leaning on his boyfriends shoulder

I personally, believe that the biggest red flag of course is that you guys expect to “prove your love”.

This is a sign of a controlling relationship. According to me, if you were to stay in this relationship, how many times in the coming future you are going to have to “prove your love” by doing something.

Moreover, I know what I already do is not enough”, in long-distance relationships, open and honest communication is vital to create intimacy.

When one partner is unavailable for intimacy, no matter how much you are invested in the relationship, it is never ever going to last. Why do you think that you need to do more than what you already have for your boyfriend to make him feel your love no matter what?

This sort of love could drain you and take up more of your time than you already have to invest in him and your relationship with him. We had conflicts, and flaws and sometimes go to the stage of breaking up but at the end of the day we go back to our memories of whatever we had done for each other reminded us.

Then lastly, we get back to each other by saying sorry. You know what if you truly love each other and you are loyal to your partner. You can’t survive without each other and we all know the fact that everything happens for a reason.

As I spent my better days with him. So, I am choosing to support him through every endeavor and reassure his insecurities and worries because he chooses to do the same for me.

Long-distance relationships are not suitable for everyone or every couple. It takes an extremely strong person and couple to make the relationship work.

Also, if one or both of them do not have the secret ingredients to making a relationship work, then it is set up for heartbreak and a ton of emotional pain.

We’ve had many variations on many days. Now we grow old together – bittersweet, but I think the best is yet to come.


Sim is the founder of The Blessed Human. A budding literary artist who loves to pen down blogs especially on culture, lifestyle, and life.